It's getting on for 4 years after we left. So, a reflective post for someone who needs it.  Life has calmed down - to an extent, co - parenting is still challenging though. He is the only person on the planet who provided the level of difficulty. However, with steps in place such as handovers being in the library in public, waiting in the car to avoid interactions,  you can manage. Legalities - are a challenge but solicitors are working their way through things and hopefully

When I was at refuge I was watching an advert for the Salvation Army Christmas Appeal. It was an appeal to help the homeless. I had this...

I have been hibernating. Emphasis on the 'have' there. I would rewrite in capitols but seems to aggresive with my coffee this morning. ...

I feel I have turned into a slug. Purely metaphorically you understand. I have a court date with my ex thats ongoing. I am not allowed to...

Leaving an abuser I wanted to write as a warning, no, that sounds ominous. A realistic managing expectations - leaving an abuser is a...

I want to leave - what do I do? Be aware your decision will swing day by day and just allow the thought process to work its way. There...

My 10 yr old and I are walking Jess on the field. My best friend in the whole world coincidently has left her husband and she has no...