I heard a story today that made me want to write this post. It was a women in a horrible marriage, with three children - the full works regarding domestic abuse. The daughter who’s a teenager has started to verbalise to a friend more and more about the abuse. The abuse that the Mum will tell herself they aren’t noticing, with all the will in the world, they are. Her barrier to leaving is finances. She doesn’t work, well she works - incredibly hard - at making sure dinner has to be in the...

And just like that he was gone. My extra jug of gravy - see blog two back - life four years on. I was with someone for just over a year. This person has never made me feel so safe and secure. So adored even! So it’s hard to understand and process when I found him recently on dating sights. It’s hard to stop trying to understand why people, well men in my case will claim to be so in love but disrespect you at the same time.  I’ve been told so many lies I don’t know what was real and what...

It's been so long since my last blog. I think one part from the story is missing though and that's when the phone call happened.  So...